
The depth I’ve been craving (and maybe you have too)
July 30, 2025
How to let your frequency shape you
August 13, 2025I’ve never really fit in.
I’ve shape-shifted to belong.
I’ve felt too much in some spaces, not enough in others.
I’ve wondered where home really is, on this earth, in my body, in this wild, changing world.
I know this feeling intimately.
As a brown woman of Indian origin, adopted into a white western family, growing up in a predominantly black country.
As a sensitive, intuitive soul in systems that value speed and efficiency over soul.
As someone who’s always seen things a little differently.
Who’s carried deep wisdom before I even had language for it.
Who never quite knew where she belonged, because she was never really meant to fit into what was.
For so long I thought something was wrong with me.
That if I could just figure myself out, I’d finally arrive.
That clarity meant certainty. That identity meant something fixed.
But the more I’ve unravelled, softened, and returned to myself, the more I see…
My not-fitting-in is my superpower.
My shape-shifting helped me see what others couldn’t.
My sensitivity allowed me to read the unspoken.
My multiplicity has made me a bridge between worlds – seen and unseen, a portal, and a guide for others.
And here’s what I’ve come to know for sure:
When you stop trying to fit in:
When you embrace the edges, the in-between spaces, the liminality.
You unlock a deeper current of power and being-ness that is unmistakably yours.
This changes everything.
In your business, it shifts how you magnetise clients. You stop reaching, and instead start resonating.
In your leadership, it anchors you in authenticity, so you no longer wobble with every trend or external demand.
In your creativity, it frees your voice, allowing your truest work to flow through, unfiltered.
And in your nervous system, it brings a sense of peace. Of rightness. Of finally being home in yourself.
Because the pressure to fit in fragments us.
But the permission to be. To claim the fullness of who you are, is where your frequency stabilises, and your soul-heart-body-led success begins to root and rise.
This is the essence of Embodied Power, my next book coming out in November, especially for the visionary leader who has never really fit in, and the frequency I’ve been living into more deeply than ever since writing it.
Because real power, embodied power, isn’t about force or performance.
It’s about a rootedness in who you truly are, especially in a world that taught you to hide it.
It’s the frequency of no longer pretending you don’t know your brilliance.
Of leading, creating, and living from the places you once felt were “too much” or “not enough.”
Of honouring what makes you you, your differences, are your greatest gifts.
This is why I created The Embodied Power Portal. It’s a private, powerful 1:1 space for visionary creatives, leaders, and changemakers who are no longer here to contort, perform, or prove, but to lead from your essence.
To remember your way.
To reclaim your voice.
To radiate your truest frequency.
And if you’re not ready for the deep 1:1, but you feel the resonance of this, you can choose to begin with my upcoming six week online experience: Frequency First.
A potent, energetic immersion to align your field with who you already are, underneath the noise.
You don’t have to fit in. You were never meant to.
You’re here to resonate, and those who are meant for you will feel it.
This is your power.
Explore what’s calling you:
☀️ The Embodied Power Portal — 1:1 support to anchor your essence and lead from your rooted power. Join before 31st August and you’ll receive Frequency First as a bonus, plus a copy of my upcoming book, Embodied Power. See more here.
🐍 Frequency First, a six week online immersion, is about coming home to yourself, and letting that be the foundation for everything. Sign up before 31st August and you’ll also receive a pre-publication copy of Embodied Power as a gift. See more here.
🌺 If you have any questions or would like to be supported to feel into what is aligned for you now, you can book in a connection call with me here.
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