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I’m easing back into the online space after taking a pause on the Kenyan coast last week, after Embodied Power officially birthed into the world at the end of November. Thank you for all the messages, the purchases, the quiet moments you’ve shared with the book already. I can feel its power weaving through people’s lives in that subtle-but-undeniable way it always promised it would.

It’s been quite an experience as the day before my first ever in person launch, my lower back went… hard. The worst pain I’ve ever experienced. It was physical, yes, but it also felt like something older… something ancestral… something around power, money, responsibility, being a woman who makes good money in the world. I made it through the launch (helped by some high strength pain medication), which was perfect in every way – in a gorgeous setting with the most beautiful group of humans I could have asked for. Then the next day I went to the southern Kenyan coast, still in pain and dosed up on meds.

As I lay there in the most gorgeous surroundings, I could feel this deep story surfacing. An inter-generational belief about what happens when a woman steps into her power and asks to be well supported for it. After some very real shadow work and letting myself receive the wisdom that wanted to surface, something shifted – on the night of the Gemini full moon. The next morning my back began healing.

What released wasn’t just tension. It was an old version of me. An identity I didn’t know I was still carrying.

And this is the part I want to share with you, because it has changed something in me on a fundamental level.

Identity is everything.

It is the hidden architecture behind your power, your creative expression, your money stories, your leadership, your visibility, your capacity to receive… all of it.

Identity is the version of you you’re living from, often unconsciously.
It is who you believe yourself to be when no one is watching.
It is the frequency your body holds without you trying.
It is the baseline your life calibrates to, over and over again.

And as I moved through the pain, something became startlingly clear:

We can be doing all the “right” things, yet if the identity we unconsciously inhabit is tied to old survival patterns, inherited beliefs, or past versions of ourselves, it can’t hold the future we’re reaching for. The inner architecture collapses before the new reality has a chance to take root.

That was what cracked open for me.
The pain released… and underneath it, the real identity emerged.
Not the one shaped by ancestry or conditioning.
Not the one shaped by survival or expectations.
But the one I actually am.

The one who can hold this book, this work, this frequency, this leadership.

And I realised: this is the work I’ve been doing with clients for years, but now I can name it.

Identity is the missing piece.

It is the you beneath the conditioning, the fear, the patterns you’ve normalised.
The you who creates from power before the world mirrors that power back to you.
The you who leads, writes, speaks, and builds from the truth of who you are, not the version life trained you to shrink into.

This is the core of Embodied Power. You create your life, your work, your impact, from the identity you choose to inhabit… not the one you inherited.

So as this year closes and a 1-year in numerology opens: a year of initiation, leadership, new beginnings: I want to offer you a gentle reflection:

Who are you becoming next?
Who do you choose to be before life mirrors it back?
What identity are you ready to inhabit now, not someday?

The moment I dropped an old identity, clarity arrived.
Creative power returned.
And I could feel myself standing in the version of me who can hold everything I’ve been building. Now my job is to hold this, to re-calibrate to it, so it becomes my new normal.

This is what I’ll be speaking about more in the coming months, especially in the context of writing a book, shaping a body of work, and building a business or legacy that matches the truth of who you actually are.

And if you feel the stirrings of your own identity shifting…if you’re writing something, building something, or preparing to step into a chapter that requires more of you than ever before… then take a look at the special I am offering on:

The Embodied Power Portal

A private partnership to embody the identity of who you truly are

Whether you’re writing a book, refining your leadership, creating an offering, or preparing to step into your next level of impact, this is where identity becomes your frequency… and your frequency becomes your life. This is identity-level transformation, paired with the creative and strategic support to turn your inner power into tangible results, impact, and legacy. You can see more here: The Embodied Power Portal.

If you’re feeling the pull (or even the whisper) book in a call here. We’ll explore whether this identity-led year is yours.