
The strategy for those who don’t fit the mould
July 23, 2025
The power of not fitting in
August 6, 2025July’s been a quieter month for me these past few years, ever since moving back to Kenya and feeling the shift into a slower, more wintry season here in the southern hemisphere. I knew this year would be no different, so I gave myself more space.
More stillness.
Time to pause, breathe, and ask myself: What’s next?
Not from a big plan. But from who I’ve become since writing my last book.
And what’s come through more clearly than ever is this:
I’m craving depth.
Not more to do. Not more noise. Not more pressure.
But a depth that feels slow, rich, spacious, and holds space for all parts of you.
A depth where you can truly get to know all facets of yourself, and how they are here to be in the world.
It’s a depth that has become rare in a world that moves this fast.
It’s a depth that can feel like a luxury.
But it’s a depth that literally changes everything.
Maybe you feel it too.
You’ve already done a lot. You’ve built, held, led, achieved.
But there’s something stirring now.
A quiet sense that it’s time to drop beneath the surface. Deeper than ever before.
Not to burn it all down, but to connect to what’s real. What’s true. What’s next.
And when you give yourself even a little space to deepen into this, this is what starts to happen:
- The noise begins to quiet, and your own voice becomes clearer.
- The pressure to keep performing starts to loosen.
- You remember what actually matters to you.
- The ideas you’ve been feeling. They start landing without you having to force them.
- You stop editing yourself. And start hearing your truth again.
- You begin to see what’s ready to shift and what you’re no longer available for.
- And slowly, gently, you return to your whole self.
This is the kind of space I love holding.
One that’s just for you.
Where you don’t have to shrink or explain who you are.
Where even the quietest, most tender parts of you are welcome.
Where you get to feel your way back into the leader, creator, human you really are, beneath it all.
If this speaks to something in you, I want to invite you into The Embodied Power Portal.
It’s my one-to-one journey for creatives, leaders, and soul-led entrepreneurs who are ready to step into their next evolution, not by doing more, but by coming home to yourself.
Over six months (more if it feels aligned), we’ll clear what no longer fits, and reconnect you with the power and presence that’s already inside you. It’s not a programme. It’s not a list of things to fix. It’s a space to be met. Fully. Deeply. Without having to prove a thing.
This is the space I’m here to hold.
And these are the shifts my clients experience inside it:
- Finally feeling like they can show up as themselves. No more pretending, performing, or trying to fit into a version of leadership that doesn’t feel like YOU.
- Saying yes to the things they’ve been quietly dreaming about for years: writing the book, creating the work that really lights them up, making a shift they’ve been scared to make.
- Letting go of old roles or ways of working that just aren’t aligned anymore, and start building something that feels way more true.
- Reconnecting with their own voice and sense of power, not in a big loud way, but in a way that feels steady, rooted and real.
- Feeling clearer. More anchored in themselves, even when things feel uncertain.
- Resonating at a different frequency, which feels like home.
- There’s more ease, more creativity, more space… because they’re not in constant push or proving mode anymore.
This work happens over time, clients stay with me for a number of years. It’s a partnership, and a space where you are seen, held and supported, exactly as you are.
And if you join The Embodied Power Portal before the end of August, you’ll also get access complimentary lifetime access to Frequency First: a 6-week energetic journey to help you reconnect with your own energy, your own rhythm, and your unique voice in life and business.
If you’re feeling the pull book a call here. We can chat about what’s opening for you, and whether this is the space you’ve been waiting for.
This is deep, personal, powerful work. And if you’re ready, I’d be honoured to walk with you.
Tara 🌺