
Who are you really?
April 3, 2025
This part of you might be behind the hesitation
April 16, 2025I know you’re a visionary, a leader, a creative with a mission. You’re here to build something meaningful, something that reflects who you truly are.
You want a business where you get to spend your days doing work that makes your heart happy. Like guiding clients through shamanic journeys that shift their entire world. Creating that transformational offering born from a shower-download you know will be epic. Or writing poetry that inspires hope and lets someone escape the shitty-ness of the ‘real world’ for a moment in time.
You want to help others in ways that feel heart-opening and soul-stimulating.
And yes, you want to make good money doing it, without needing to shape-shift into some robotic machine with no ‘off’ button. You need time for you… time to chill by the beach, get a weekly massage, take daily naps, or learn Thai cooking just because it calls to you.
I get this. And I am FULLY here for it.
But if you’re anything like me, there are moments when this path can feel sloooow.
When doubt creeps in, whispering that you should be further along by now.
When you scroll through social media and see the endless targeted posts about consistent five-figure months.
And you wonder: Will this ever become the business I dreamed of when I took the plunge and quit my full-time office job?
But what if your business, your creative body of work, is moving at exactly the pace it needs to?
What if the way it’s unfolding is part of its strength?
As I was reminded by my mentor last week (who has the kind of business I once dreamed of: a waitlist for her 1:1 container, sharing on social media that’s powerful and making an impact, and offerings that sell like hand sanitiser in 2020):
“Business built on soul alignment, depth, and impact takes time.”
💚 It takes time to nurture genuine connections – ones that aren’t transactional, but rooted in trust and resonance.
👯 It takes time to find the people who truly get your work – those who feel the energy of your message and are ready for the life-changing experience you offer.
🧱 It takes time to build sustainably – so that your work supports you energetically, financially, and creatively over the long term, not just in fleeting bursts of momentum.
Nature doesn’t rush a tree into full bloom before its roots are deep enough to hold it.
Your business is no different.
🌱 Some seasons are for planting seeds. Visioning and experimenting.
🪵 Some for tending. Nurturing and growing.
🏝 Some for resting in the liminal. Rooting deep. Be-ing.
🌾 And some for harvesting. Receiving the gifts of your work.
It’s not about forcing, looking for the next gimmick, guru, or hack to beat the algorithm. Watering down your message (and what you really do) to fit into a neat little box, that cuts out half your heart.
It’s about growing strong, deep roots into rich, fertile soil. It’s about co-creating with what your business really wants to be. Honouring and holding space for the fullness of who you are: your multi-dimensionality, your creativity, your paradoxes, your desire for freedom and need to feel safe.
So if you’re feeling impatient, take a long, deeeeep breath… right down to your root at the base of your body.
And exhale with a long siiiigh.
You are exactly where you need to be.
Trust that every connection, every pivot, every iteration, every aligned step is adding to the foundation of something truly sustainable and lasting.
Trust the pace of your becoming.
Tara
P.S. If you know you want support bringing your full, multi-dimensional, intuitive, creative, powerful AF self to your business and offerings book in a connection call with me here. 🥰